My 2nd and 3rd interview was gone on at the same day. My second interview was at You Ok Counseling Centre at Desa Peteling. It was my early application that I had send my resume before my internet can’t use about 1 month till now. When I went there, it was not an easy job — I mean the distance was quite far because I using public transport. I had to go to Pasar Seni and then turn another bus near Pudu to Desa Petaling. When I reach there, it almost near the time for interview (11am).
During interview session at You Ok counseling centre, I had explored to some approach I haven’t hear before. For me, it opens my eye up. The interesting things were start with the face to face interview. Ya, it sound normal but when I enter the room, I had to faced with two interviewer, 2 women which was manager and consultant of the centre. When I hear their voice, they seem was China Chinese. The funny things begin, suppose I apply for customer services instead of counselor because I think I may lack of experience and capable to start so fast as a counselor. When they asking the question, all the like the question that suppose ask the candidate who apply the position for counselor. The question was like this: “What was the theory or trend in your University?” It mean like the counseling in our campus are more to PCT or…. “How you approach to the client like direct interview…”I found that their customer services also involve in doing sales. What I didn’t describe was how this counseling centre works here. Previously, they actually were a Buddhist community and now they are establishing this centre to help people to heal their soul. I observed the environment, I found that they not just a counseling centre, they also selling nutrition product… some kind of multiple marketing strategy.
An interesting here was the approach they used was called “Dianetics by L. Ron Hubbared”. 
I was giving an opportunity to watch a DVD about this unfamiliar approach (Dianetics). When I watch till the end… It just makes me feel interesting because I found that this approach combine the theory of unconscious so called Reactive reaction in Dianetics. It also combining the many techniques like time line in NLP, anchoring in Hypnosis, imagination from CT, memory recalling and free talk from Psychoanalysis. The manager also told me that what I saw was just the technique in Dianetics and it was just beginning part of it. I also know that every staff at there had also been train for this kind of approach…. It surprises me.
It was a month I just unofficially graduate from UTAR after finish my last paper at 7th May and also last ever sup for my Disorder of Childhood and Adolescent. During a month period, nothing I can do and going no where… Perhaps it just was my ‘ego’ reasoning. Actually I wasn’t doing anything at all. I did searching for job, waiting for interview but not respond I got. Get up? No! I consciously know that I had responsibility for my family. So finding a job to survive and supporting my family was my priority to consider now.
When getting no respond from internet applicant like jobmonsters, SPA… I turn to another way out… ya finding from news paper. Till now I had only attend 3 interviews. These three interviews were giving some sort of unexpected experience.
My 1st interview was at Kuen Cheng High School. At first, I didn’t expect to apply any job there but one day I saw the vacancies ad was post on Sin Chew main board. So why not….. I went on to try. I went there 3 times. Firstly, I went there to look for the location and how to get there. 2nd time, when I went there, I can’t meet the principles because she was busy with the meeting. I went again the next day for interview… directly… God… finally, I can meet her. During interview, then I only know that I had a good news and bad news. I apply as a counselor at there but she told me that she would like to employ an experience counselor since they already had two inexperience counselors like me that also graduate from UTAR. The good news was she wants to employ a teacher who is able to speak in Chinese for teaching Kemahiran Hidup. Till now, I haven’t got the call for inform that I got the job some more now was 2 weeks school holiday. So my job seeking journey still went on.
Today, I just went for apply for a job. Almost a week past but I haven’t got a job. At first, I feel worries but after I started to read a book that I borrow from the library , I started think that maybe the week I haven’t got the job was the best time for me to rest. Rest for a rushing 4 years….. It may also like what I found from this book “you think now that spending a year in bed will be a tragedy. But it won’t be. You will have time to think and get acquainted with yourself. You will more spiritual growth in these next few months than you have made during all your previous life”. It just like a lecturer that had told me before “it was not wrong if u are introvert, when u alone… thinking yourself… introspection… actually it was the time for your level of thinking to growth”. Yes… It could be…. These few days, although I didn’t have the job yet but I did spend it on certain matter and did used the free time to read. I may get some inspiration from the book…. When I read the passage from this book, I feel that it may right… it may be a short period but it may was the right time for me to think to learn from the other way….
The sections from the first chapter that I had read, I did get some inspire passage like:
“We have too blind to see, too satiated to enjoy” …. Perhaps it was true to these reality worlds I think. Doesn’t u think that? We sometime will do this mistake?
“We seldom think of what we have but always of what we lack” ….we always blames for our unfortunates but we didn’t think and appreciate what we already had.
“Think of all we have to be grateful for, and thank God for all our boons and bounties”… We should be like that… I guess so… if not we will not regret until we found that we lost it. In Chinese idiom “人总要在失去时才懂得珍惜” means that humans learn to appreciate when they had lost. I know this meaning a lot… Although I was not experience lost a very big thing… even I just experience lost a chance but the meaning it give to me was very ‘hurt’ that I will always remember to appreciate what I had now like family, friend and life……
My second day after my “graduate” life was a rushing day for me but it value at all. As usual, I will go to Ukay Perdana there for art class. I’m lucky today, because Ms. Shirley, will bring us to there and sure she will fetch me back also. When the time was about 5.30pm, we just wanna come back from there but lucky I was able back to PJ at about 6.30 or almost 7 pm. And suppose I will wait for my brother together went back to my hometown but he told me that he was unable to do that. I start to think another plan for going back either back to Klang first then K. Sel the next day or go back to tomorrow…… Lastly, I had made an instant decision to go back one way straight to my hometown. I’m lucky because two of my friends are willing to help on this “long distance” to my hometown. When I just back to PJ around 6 something, I quickly and rushing to pick up some shirt and with my housemate Ben Chew help I was able reaching at Asia Jaya there early for waiting bus.
I forget how long I waiting the bus to Klang because I just think I was able to reach home early. When I reaching at Klang, It already getting night. I have to switch to another bus for my hometown. When I’m on the way, I ask the help for my friend, Eng Teck. I thought I can’t buy any cake that let me had the intension to change the plan to buying a cake to KFC. My friend had remained me that we had a friend that open cake shop and this keep my idea a life again. I ask him to buy a cake whether the shop was still open. At that time, the time was about 8 pm and still haven’t reach town yet. Lucky my friend can help me buy a cake for the special day. Thanks again to my friend, Eng Teck, for helping buying a cake and fetch me back at bus station.
So my second day after the “graduation”, I was giving it to my family. It was not bad for me instead I’m doing nothing at PJ. I didn’t tell my Mom that I will going back and I think the most value thing was not only I can giving a short time with them the most value things that I had done was……. Hehe… the surprise for my family especially my mom. Usually when I want to went back, I will give a call for her. Although it seems nothing, surprising, happy, shock but somehow from the eyes I can feel that the tears nearly come out from my mom. I think this was the most value to me for the decision that I had make. I’m too long didn’t coming back to my hometown and it was too long since CNY my mom didn’t see me. And I can’t remember since which year which semester I start not going back to my home town. If not mistake it was time I study foundation. Why… Last time I used to follow my friend car to going back to hometown. When I learn to independent, I try to take bus back to Klang. The reason I didn’t always going back to my hometown was the time taking bus to went back was consume a lot of time although it was near but I need take two turn of bus so if I back I usually went back to my grandmom house at Klang.
That night, I try to talk to my mom. I told her what special and funny thing that happens to me in my Uni life. Last time, I seldom talk more personal things to my mother like I want to chase a girl….. but changes and improving was important because when I went out for study I found family was important and when study psychology, I know the communication within the family member was important so I doing what I know now. The best way to improve was starting from someone and I know I was the one had to do first. Although, the time I stay with my family was not really enough for 24 hours I thinks that exclude the sleeping time but I appreciate the chance I can talk to my sister and brother to giving them encouragement in every aspect. Before I was going back to PJ with my friend at 5 something, I was manage went to my second auntie house for a while. I also talk to them and sharing some view to my cousin that also graduates early one month than me. The decision to back for a while at this special day was value for me because I know when I study outside and not going back some more my brother also working outside and also seldom coming back my parents especially my mom will miss us much. I always think that I should appreciate and doing what ever I can right now before too late. I still remember when I told my mom regarding I want continue my study for degree, she was the one who very support me to continue to study although she know nothing what I should study.
I feel glad because I can have my time eating with my parents and sibling and chat with them. It was long time we didn’t gather to eat together since CNY. Although it leaves off my brother but the important was I was able come back and giving a little time to them. My mom told me that Sunday also my father birthday in Chinese Lunar Calendar so amazing……. Because my choice was correct and I’m lucky because able buy a cake also…. When back to my home, I also able to get some “reward”. The reward here was mean like I able to get book that I buy back to PJ for read. I bring a Chinese version Dale Carnegie— How to win Friends & Influence People 人性的弱点全集. I also found two nice new songs from radio which was 爱来的刚好—-张智成 and 如果我变成回忆 — TANK. So I was thinks that it was a value trip also although it only one day half I stay at home.
I found that 爱来的刚好 —-张智成 this song lyric was very mean to my recent situation.
爱来的刚好
张智成
总是和你擦肩而过回头看着你走
我说服自己你从来就不属于我
也在心里偷偷想过拥有你陪伴的生活
对我会是多么奢侈的梦
你完美的太过火有太多的选择
我还能付出什么除了爱你
我一无所有
爱来得刚刚好 慢一步我就走掉
或许上帝听见心中的祈祷
如果我变成回忆
(如果你变成回忆)
TANK
如果我变成回忆终于没那么幸运
(如果你变成回忆终于没那么幸运)
没机会白着头发满山牵着你看晚霞落去
(没机会见你头发默默跟着你看着你离去)
漫长时光总有一天你会伤心痊愈
(漫长时光总有一天你我会再见面)
若有人可以让他给你我不怪你
(若有天可以让我爱你我珍惜你)
快乐什么时候会结束呢
(幸福 什么时候会开始呢)
哪一刻是最后一刻
(哪一次是最后一次)
想把你紧紧抱着
(想把你拥入怀里)
可知你是我生命中的最舍不得
(可知你是我现在唯一最不舍得)
It just a few day passes after my final, my last ever exam…. Now, it can call “Unofficially graduate”. All my friends will say dunno what to do after this…. I also had little same feeling for that… I feel these four years was passing too fast and it end too soon for me. The day after the last exam, last day in campus, I think… of course I need get a job as soon as possible….. Besides this, I have one thing that I mostly and love to do —- reading book that I bought, interesting book… Haha… not text book and note anymore… Now, I can enjoy to reading those book I haven’t read. Recently, I reading a book that my friend borrow to me
说话前，先想好要伸哪根手指>. It was a great book that can be read by anyone.
The second day of my unofficially graduation from UTAR, I went back to campus for a while… HAha…… I need to return back two physiology psychology text book that I had borrow. That day, I went to campus about eleven something. I went to library first for returning the text book. After that, what I do……? I try to find some book to read lo…. Last time, my lecture Mr. Sivan had told me one book he had recently read , I found that book… but I didn’t borrow that book. Instead I find other book like , Dale Carnegie— How to Enjoy your Life and your Job>, and an also one old that I had read The Road Less Traveled and Beyond>. Last time I had read in Chinese version so I think read English version maybe can find some different. Wu…… I seem too greed to read the entire book and it seems hard to read all in one week. After borrowing book, I was having my lunch at MAMAK that near library. I think that was my last time will have my breakfast or lunch at here…..
When I back from lunch I went pass the entrance that must pass through the faculty office. When I pass by the “passenger seat” that available in front of the faculty office I notice that I saw someone familiar… Ah… Is that girl…Today she got exam also…When I turn back just want to say hi…or something I found that she was went up already….When I despair for why I always pass by with the chance, that girl show up again. She seems very rushing. She running to my direction and said “Excuse me!” then she goes to faculty office. I hear that she forget to bring exam slip that’s why she looks so hurry. The moment, I think “how can I help her?” One think I think of is I need to comfort her nervous coz she forget exam slip that may influence her emotion and also the nervous may rise when she enter late to the exam hall. I wait for her come out from the office when she want to pass by I said “Gambateh” to her but I when I think back I feel my sound may to small and I afraid she cannot hear that. When thinking back I always think my decision was not good enough… by the way I, actually I can write on a piece of paper to her that and most important I can tell her “take a deep breath before enter the hall” but I didn’t that… My reflex for not fast enough… I think so… I also think of another option I can do…. When she pass by, instead I just said “Gambateh” I still can spell loud to tell her “take a deep breath before enter the hall” but I so stupid miss the chance to do that because she still on the way went for upstairs. That day was my last time I will meet her. Don’t know whether I can meet her again…… Hm…… it possible….. Only Heaven Know! I still remember a Japanese movie “IF you believe Destiny than just believe it don’t said you believe it but the act or behaviour contracted with what u said”. It was right, I did believe in Destiny 缘份 that also said in Chinese or Buddhism but sometime I will afraid if that will not happens to me. But I know it really exist in our life like friends and family. I know I’m just not confident for the destiny that brings the mean of love relationship. That’s was my life, first day after everything was over…. I mean “graduate”. Actually, I will not feel bore coz I had a lot of movie still haven’t watch in my computer and I still can read book but sometime it seems meaningless and not feels like to do so…… I can online…. I can play Facebook but I will get bore also…. I feels miss something in my life… and actually I don’t like just play game at Facebook or watch movie at my computer to pass a day….. I prefer some intellectual conversation, sharing… sometime playing sport…. I love doing something that intrinsic motivate me to do so…… although I was doing alone.
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Just coming back from playing basketball with a gang of friends… Now, the time was already 3.37am after taking shower and washing my cloths….. I feel tired for the whole day….
May 7, 2009 (Thursday), I just finish my last paper for my last semester final examination. What I feel… Hmm I didn’t feel anything did u believe that? Recently, I realize that I was not nervous than previously when I face my entire exam. I mean when preparing for my final exam the day before the exam my anxiety seems not as much as before. I also can’t believe that my mood was flattened. I was thinking why… I think the current semester final exam was my most ‘relax’ that I had experience compare to last time. It not because I was well prepare, It not because I was getting up…. I may experience no mood to study but maybe it was because I will graduate soon…. I think that’s the possible answers that can explain why I didn’t feel anything for my final exam. Previously, I still will put some expectation to consider for getting good result for my exam but after all it seems not important anymore for me… graduate was more important than anything else for me.
After I finish my final paper (Physiology Psychology), I feel some sort of miserable because everything was finish…. Four year study at PJ here was just like a blinks of eyes, it was like the feeling of lost everything in one day… I not need to study anymore….. Not need to go for the campus; I will not gonna to see my friends….. I will miss my Uni life…… I will miss every single part of the memory during study at UTAR like the place I always goes to eat….Mamak.
I experience this kind of feeling before during my Year 1 three month holidays before I found a part time job. Everything happens like so sudden…. I feel so quite…lonely….. Nothing to do… I didn’t like this feeling….. Maybe I already become habitual to my Uni life…. Although I know and understand that all this was part of our life but I can’t deny the feelings that exist…….. Time will come and this feeling will back to normal. I had to go through this………
Recently, I always wonder to wait another opportunity, another chance to meet the girl again. Today, god is giving me another chance that I waiting so long. After having my lunch, I back to the 1st floor lab to continue my revision. I saw a back of a girl that in front of me. I was thinking “is it was her…?” I know sure about it but feel like is her… When I was able saw her watch on her left hand, my feeling was increase to sure that maybe is her… When I can saw her from a side that she turns, I notice “God… is really her!” It makes me more confident that was her when she turns back that make me can saw her clearly. In that moment, I was thinking “how… should I go to say something to her? Maybe this was that last chance I got….” The funny thing happens… when I went up for action the girl also turns up but she was rushing for her exam at 2pm. It just few second if I was able to say something like “good luck…” before she was went out from the lab…. When I just want to spoke out her friend coming back and that all finish…….
I know I still got chance because she will finish her exam till 4pm so I keep waiting by the way doing my revision. When the time close to 4pm, I waiting at the foyer entrance. I wonder why she hasn’t come out so I went inside… ha that’s she… When she went with her friends I also went out… When I walk out, I think “Oh, this difficult… how I gonna to had a chat with her? She was on the way home.” I just doing like a “spy”, maybe like a “dangerous stranger”… follow her. When I was about closer to her, I was beginning nervous and “she now in front of me… I need to take action…” “If not, I will again miss the chance of the 4 or 5 times and she will get near to her car already…” At last, I did it but the conversation was starting very poor and I forget to introduce myself….. She was rushing back that time and a silly question had proposed to her… can u leave me your phone number?Haiz….真是笨猪一条 How stupid I’m….. God… Definitely she rejected. Maybe next time…. The times haven’t come…. It was not the right time………. That was my ever experience I got the chance to talk a girl but get stuck for the conversation that make me feel embarrassed to her and that was my first time I try to ask phone number with someone I didn’t know (some more from different course). If from the same course maybe she will accept in sense we may know because we from same course. It may seem too fast to get the phone number… why not … I mean to try although the percentage was low.
Although the things seem nothing can make me happy of but at least I did try what I suppose to do…. At least, I did it at last for the chance I miss it a lot. Who know…..every single afford can make a different…….. I hope she will not get shock of my sudden “action” ….. I hope she will forgive my “unintention” interuption……….
In my last two semesters in Uni, it was starting with a very busy “first half” before everything become settle down especially for my final year project. When I thinking back, it quit true for me because recently I found that I was miss out something in my last semester and it only recently and during my last few week (4/5 weeks) before my semester of study end then I was only realize. Everything started with an opportunity that had given by God maybe…. but all those chance was been wasted and miss by me. Sometime I will wonder to know why God give me to realize only in my last few week in my Uni life, why not early? Actually I know why I not notice… because in the last short semester (Year 3 Sem 2) I also don’t know what had make me so busy that make me miss up something may important to me. In my memory, I still remember how I had notice the existing of this person in Uni. I still remember last time an activities so called “fire exist” practice. Ha… maybe someone not notices that this activity exist in UTAR for the first time. When I line up outside the campus, outside the foyer, I had a glance of sign to see this person. I sure that was my first time I notice has such person in UTAR. If I not mistaken, I had meet this people once or twice but not as frequent during my last few weeks in my last semester in Uni. I wonder we can meet again? I wonder to know will I repeat the same stupid mistake when that was another chance for me. I wonder the miracles will happen again? I wonder the destiny will brought us together in future? Now….. Only Heaven Know!
That’s my life in Uni… If you ask me did I regret? I will say no. Honestly, I will say I not regret to choose study psychology even study at UTAR. Till now, I still remember why I choose to study psychology. There had two reasons. First, it related to my career fields. Second, it because my interest for unconscious mind. How will I regret if I choose the course that I interest to study? That’s was the best thing I got because sometime people can’t even choose what they like so until now I feel not regret for what had I choose to study.
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When I write all this, I found that that’s really a lot of first time in our life. All this first time become my most value memories…first time living alone that far apart from my parents, first time buy goods and cloths by myself, first time went a place so far alone or even went shopping my own….. Another unforgettable experience was upon these four years, white bread always was my ‘best choice’. Truly, it can satisfy my stomach at all but to adapt it my stomach always change to adapt my eating style. It was my best choice to save money although it was unhealthy. I still remember during training at Ti-Ratana, 12 of my friends was shock eating capacity. I like to eat rice and the amount of rice that I consume always shocking my friends. I take rice more just because it can fulfill my stomach. I still remember one sweet memory that I had almost forgotten. I had joining with my tutorial group in playing futsal that organized by our own course. I still remember it was my first time I playing futsal and at first I thought I will play at front but lastly I play at the position of goal keeping. Although I also not had experience in goal keeping but I think should be Ok for me because I know how to play basketball so I guess I can catch the ball. I was nervous all the time and I had the thought to switch the position with my team mate but lastly I was ending with same position because I notice that although Goal keeper was not look attracted but it was an important position to hold the ball from the opponent. What make me stand still at my position was the thought “Although become striker to strike a goal will attracted people but as goal keeper also can be so attracted when I can block any powerful strike from the opponent”. Although my team end up with only winning one or two round but we still can’t qualified for the final round.
Recently during study week, I try to study at campus or library to remain some sweet memories about the place that I “fight” for my final exam. Ha…another reason I went to campus was because I can enjoyed the air-con besides doing my revision. When talk about revision, it let me remember I had two experience of study group with my friends at last time and the newer was recently. Last time, I still remember my study group was form with Shaun, Kok Eng… The recent one was with Ray, Tracy and Shi Qieng. Recently, when I walking back from campus alone, I will walk more slowly and looking around the scene and view of the place that around UTAR. I try to enjoy because I may not be coming for the campus after graduate. After my final exam my Uni life will be over…. It was another ending point. I was wonder that if the time will go more slower so my Uni life still can continue and not finish so fast. But I know the reality, it won’t happen! Only just wonder and wish if this could happen. Why I will think like that…? I think that was plenty reason to explain that. Maybe previously I too keen and busy for my study, assignments and it let me thinks that I not enjoying enough my Uni life. Haha… maybe study life is better than working life at outside…. Maybe it was because I wonder to having more chance to see that girls again…I will remember everything in my Uni life… the experience for doing assignment that involve a lot of 1st time like taking video recording, acting, editing, and presentation… of course I will remember my course mate, class mate, housemate, roommate and lastly my lecture.
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I like philosophy so that’s why I think a lot and maybe it was because I was introvert that makes me like to introspect a lot. I will thinks and believe that a relationship that we build for a friends, wife, and family was karma, fate or destiny that brings us together. In Chinese, we say “前世修来的福”, it means that the relationship that we bound together with our friends, family and wife was recreation or karma from our previous life so the important thing here…. Appreciate the relationship with our family, wife and also friends. When undergo my training at there, I get know 11 other people that from other tutorial group. Some of them become closer relationship after our training was over. I enjoyed to getting new friends here although I too obvious with myself. What I get from the three month training? I would say sweet and value memory and also experience like one day Baking course experience. The experience like talk with the old folks and presentation other than in Uni give me more understanding my strength and weakness. Another most value things I get were the scholarship that enables me to learn art. Learning art was an unexpected thing that happens in my life. When I was a child, I don’t have the chance to learn anything extra like art or music other than in school. Some how, I forget or that’s nothing special for my second semester, I can’t recall any special things from that although it may had any experience that I may left off. But for me it was also a rushing 7 weeks that I had gone through before I getting start my final year project. I use about three week during my semester break to start with my project and collecting the data.
During my last year and last semester in Uni, I was busy and rush my final year project. Meanwhile, I had to do my assignment as well. Everything become relaxes after the final year project had been hand up although the quality of the project was not good but who to blame—Myself….but the important thing was graduate from the Uni that’s a reality things. After final year project, the assignment was the left thing had to do. After that, presentation was another work and lastly waiting for final exam. When the time after the final year project had been passing up, I feel relax from my heart. I start to figure it out how to enjoyed my last few week in Uni life. That’s was week I always getting myself with my friend to play basketball. Sometime we are crazy playing till midnight and also having supper or tea time after basketball. But thanks for them, my course mate and also play mate like Teng Kuann, Sze Chieng, Tai Lou, Ray, Yeong Yeong, Chin Jue, David, Yoong Hsiang, Erh, Charles……because them my Uni life will not dumb to study only. That’s the part I always searching….enjoyed my life especially my Uni life! Enjoyed in the sense not only study, learning, experiencing any single aspect in my life. It will be another ending point in my life soon after my final exam. So … what I did was engaging more activities with my classmate like having lunch together, one day trip, sing K…. One thing that my classmate will always not left out— Photo taking, I also will anticipate in every photo taking session that we had together as a memory for my last semester in Uni life. Last time I was just what my friend said— too quiet and isolate and these four years I found I was changing a lot.
Back to the question that Mr. Lau had ask me. Mmm….actually when I study psychology at here, I didn’t notice what I had learned. Maybe it was because I not put much focus on it but when the question he ask had me giving me a chance to review back the things that I had left out so long. When I taking Counselling Practicum at my current semester in this year, I had the chance to notice what I can learn from psychology. During this subject, I had to review some book for conducting a short counseling session. I had learned to apply the counseling skills that I had learned this three year on to session. I found that counseling actually help me in the way how to view in human’s problem and it also giving me to thinks that it can applied in our daily life. We are not making interpreting or judgment on people problem, behaviour… we need to understand their problem form their point of view, and we need to put ourselves into their shoe. It called empathic feeling. Besides that, from the counseling theory, views of humanistic, I found that some of the theory was quiet interesting and applicable in our life although not used in counseling. Like Choice theory, we had the choice to choose what we want our behaviour to be. According to the founder (Glasser), when people cannot fulfill their needs, they will deny their reality of the world. Hence, the denial will form the negative identity which will lead to maladaptive behaviour. In choice theory, it believed that we choose to depress or choose to be misery and develop the total behaviour. People are said responsible for their own behaviour and people are believe can change and live more effective lives. In short, the choice theory is trying to say that the psychological problem was our choosing behviour that lead to our reaction (behaviour). Despite what the psychology knowledge I learned but this three year it giving me a lot of experience. For me, the Uni life was the place and journey that let us growing and to reach more mature in many aspect like thinking, attitude, problem solving…..
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